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Miss Manners: How do I keep my wife’s art off our walls without a blowup?

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

DEAR MISS MANNERS: We just had our living room repainted and redecorated. Unbeknownst to me, my wife, an accomplished photographer, had one of her photos blown up to a 3-foot-by-4-foot canvas print and wants to hang it in the newly minted living room.Related ArticlesAdvice | Miss Manners: Three years after disappearing, she sent me a rude email Advice | Miss Manners: Must I tell these nosy people about the tragedy of my fiance? Advice | Miss Manners: They’re demanding we vacation every year in the back of beyond Advice | Miss Manners: You better believe the guests notice when the bride has a different meal Advice | Miss Manners: I used to be flattered by this response. Not anymore. Only problem is, I don’t like the photo, and I really don’t want that size of photo hanging in our living room — especially when we have artwork from around the world that used to be on the walls before...

Dear Abby: My wife’s odd question led me to evidence of her deceit

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my wife for 23 years, married 19 of them. We have two grown children, ages 22 and 20. I recently realized she’s still in love with the guy she dated just before me.Related ArticlesAdvice | Dear Abby: I just wanted to sit in their house for a few hours, and they wouldn’t let me in Advice | Dear Abby: I just learned my brother knew a secret that would have changed my life Advice | Dear Abby: My sister says this skeevy man needs to be part of our family Advice | Dear Abby: I was blindsided by my fiance’s threat over this business deal Advice | Dear Abby: The groom’s father refuses to attend the wedding if heavy-drinking kin are excluded How did I find out? Well, one day my wife and I were watching a TV show together, and out of nowhere, she asked me my opinion on open marriages. I gave her a vague answer and started investigating why she asked me that ques...

Horoscopes Nov. 4, 2023: Kathy Griffin, get you where you want to go

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Sean Combs, 54; Matthew McConaughey, 54; Ralph Macchio, 62; Kathy Griffin, 63.Happy Birthday: Don’t give anyone the upper hand this year. Play to win and you will outshine anyone who gets in your way. Use your charm to mesmerize and your secrecy to surprise. Be observant, organized and ready to take on any challenge that comes your way. Opportunity knocks, but so does the opposition. Preparation, detail and dedication will enhance stability and security and get you where you want to go. Your numbers are 3, 11, 20, 26, 33, 39, 47.ARIES (March 21-April 19): Consider your thoughts and intentions and how they can benefit you. A personal adjustment will give you the boost you need to bring about positive change. Channel your energy into making a meaningful relationship better. Amicable solutions will bring you closer together. 5 starsTAURUS (April 20-May 20): Don’t let your emotions lead you astray. Focus on your endgame and work backward to ensu...

Word Game: Nov. 4, 2023

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

TODAY’S WORD — PERCEIVED (PERCEIVED: pur-SEEV’d: Regarded in a specified way; recognized through the senses.)Average mark 40 wordsTime limit 60 minutesCan you find 55 or more words in PERCEIVED? The list will be published Monday.YESTERDAY’S WORD — ARMORED adore adorer aero ardor armed armor radome ramrod rare read ream rear rearm redo remora road roam roamer roar rode made mare marred mead mode more oared order dame dare darer dear demo doer dome dorm dormer dram dream drearTo purchase the Word Game book, visit WordGameBooks.com. Order it now for just $5 while supplies last!RULES OF THE GAME:1. Words must be of four or more letters.2. Words that acquire four letters by the addition of “s,” such as “bats” or “dies,” are not allowed.3. Additional words made by adding a “d” or an “s” may not be used. For example, if “bake” is used, “baked” or “bakes” are not allowed, but “bake” and “baking” are admissible.4. Proper nouns, slang words, or vulgar or sexually...

Ask Amy: How do I tell my neighbor I want out of this ritual?

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

Dear Amy: My husband and I have become close friends with our next-door neighbors. We have enjoyed meals and outside events with them.Related ArticlesAdvice | Ask Amy: She sent me your advice column and told me I did something unacceptable Advice | Ask Amy: My sister asked these teens a question I found thoughtless Advice | Ask Amy: I was upset about what they were eating, and they laughed when I objected Advice | Ask Amy: My parents aren’t really fighting, but it makes my husband uncomfortable Advice | Ask Amy: Yes, I drink too much, but here’s why I won’t do AA During COVID we began having weekly dinners with them, forming a sort of “pod.” After restrictions eased, these weekly dinners became assumed.One spouse in this couple is quite aggressive, vociferous and rude. At times I have been close to tears.I’m in a quandary as to how to approach this person to say that these nights have b...

Harriette Cole: Nobody is doing anything about my abusive boss

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been working at my current job for three years, and I was recently promoted. I am now working directly under the CEO, who has been verbally abusive toward me.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: The trait that got me this far isn’t working anymore Advice | Harriette Cole: I’m seeing a huge red flag in my new marriage Advice | Harriette Cole: I chose this job for the money, but now I dread going to the office Advice | Harriette Cole: All the doors were locked, but there she was in my kitchen Advice | Harriette Cole: I’m jealous of my friend’s magic pixie dust Although I enjoy my work, his behavior has caused me to shut down and has led to anxiety. I did speak to HR about the situation, but it seems like nothing has been done.I am unsure about leaving my job because I do love what I do, but I am conflicted about whether to stay in this work environment. Wh...

Empty Shabbat table on National Mall showcases human toll of Middle East conflict

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

They don’t have a name. They don’t have an affiliation. But they’re hard to miss, especially with a multi-yard Shabbat table on D.C.’s National Mall.A group of concerned D.C. citizens set up a table Friday evening for Shabbat, or the Jewish sabbath, leaving more than 240 seats empty to represent those still missing after being taken hostage in the current conflict in the Middle East.The grassroot community organization flies flags from many nations at their dinner table and has both Jewish and non-Jewish members. They say all they want is an end to the bloodshed.“We’d love to have a peaceful resolution,” said group leader Ron Sokolov. “We’d love for there to be peace in Israel. Peace in the Middle East. And peace for Palestinians and the Jews in Israel.”Sokolov is the de facto leader of this grassroots community group, which he said sprung up organically through networking and word-of-mouth. He said they want to make it clear they’re not taking sides, or poli...

Taliban appeal to Afghan private sector to help those fleeing Pakistan’s mass deportation drive

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

ISLAMABAD (AP) — The Taliban Saturday appealed to Afghanistan’s private sector to help people fleeing Pakistan’s mass deportation drive.Pakistan is arresting and expelling all foreigners it says are in the country illegally, but the policy mostly affects Afghans because they are the biggest group of undocumented foreigners in the country.The Ministry of Commerce and Industry in Kabul urged Afghanistan’s private sector to step forward and help.Afghans forcibly expelled from Pakistan are facing the worst situation of their lives, with no opportunities, the ministry said. “The ministry invites the private sector to take action because of the profound humanitarian disaster caused by the forced migration of hundreds of thousands of the poor and needy. It is the duty of Islam and Afghans to stand up for their fellow countrymen.”Afghanistan is overwhelmed by challenges, including years of drought, a beleaguered economy and the aftermath of decades of war. Millions are already internally di...

Pakistani troops kill 9 militants and foil an attack on an airbase in eastern Punjab province

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

ISLAMABAD (AP) — Pakistan’s military said they foiled an attack by militants on a training air base in eastern Punjab province early Saturday, killing all nine assailants.The troops’ “swift and effective response” thwarted the attack at Mianwali Training Air Base, keeping its personnel and assets safe, a military statement said, though three grounded aircraft were damaged and a fuel tanker destroyed in the fighting. The troops killed three attackers while they were entering the base, and another three were cornered and shot dead in an exchange of fire. The military said that the remaining three attackers who were hiding were killed during an operation to clear the area of militants. The attack comes a day after an ambush on a military convoy killed 14 soldiers in southwest Baluchistan province. Also on Friday, a bomb and gun attack on a vehicle carrying police left five dead and more than 20 wounded. No group has immediately claimed responsibility for Saturday’s at...

England wins toss and bowls against Australia. Ravindra’s 3rd ton leads NZ against Pakistan

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 14:46:14 GMT

BENGALURU, India (AP) — Captain Jos Buttler won the toss and opted to field against Australia in Ahmedabad at the Cricket World Cup on Saturday.The defending champions have endured a nightmarish tournament with only one win in six games, and are languishing at the bottom of the points’ table with two points. After five losses, England is virtually knocked out of the tournament with only a mathematical possibility of making the top-four even if it beats Australia.Australia, meanwhile, is third in the table – equal on eight points with New Zealand – but ahead on net run-rate. The five-time champions need two wins in their remaining three games to outright qualify for the semi-finals.England has fielded an unchanged side from its previous loss against India in Lucknow.Australia has made two changes, after Glenn Maxwell was ruled out owing to concussion at a golfing incident this past week. All-rounder Mitchell Marsh has also flown home for personal reasons, with a return date still unk...