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Ask Amy: I can’t abide the family dinners anymore. Should I tell them why?

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

Dear Amy: I have three sisters. Our parents are elderly.Related ArticlesAdvice | Ask Amy: I’m the bride, and I don’t want any baby to change my wedding plan Advice | Ask Amy: I couldn’t bring myself to do my boyfriend’s ‘favorite thing’ Advice | Ask Amy: My boyfriend says it’s over because of the surprise visitor Advice | Ask Amy: This is when I realized I had waited too long to leave my girlfriend Advice | Ask Amy: I worry about affording vacations if I move out of my parents’ house We have been getting together for a potluck dinner at my parents’ house to celebrate birthdays and other occasions, usually once a month.This makes it easier for our folks so they do not have to leave their home.The issue is that my parents and three sisters are very negative people.The conversation is always about how inadequate our current politicians are. They constantly spr...

Harriette Cole: I’m 21 and a barista. Did I make a mistake?

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

DEAR HARRIETTE: I’m a 21-year-old woman who made the decision not to go to college.Related ArticlesAdvice | Harriette Cole: How should I address this awkward situation with my friends? Advice | Harriette Cole: I tried to avert this friend drama, and it had the opposite effect Advice | Harriette Cole: My boyfriend lied about work to get time to himself. How do I deal with that? Advice | Harriette Cole: I was shocked to learn what my son does at school Advice | Harriette Cole: Find the right life story to make your new year better I have found myself working as a Starbucks barista, stuck in the same town I grew up in. My friends from high school are about to graduate and secure positions at Fortune 500 companies.I find myself overwhelmed with regret after hearing of their success. I’m questioning my choices and wondering if I made a mistake by not pursuing a traditional education.I am consideri...

Let’s Seize This Opportunity to Destroy Harvard! 

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

The entrance to Harvard Yard in Cambridge, Mass., on Jan. 2, 2024.Photo: David L. Ryan/The Boston Globe via Getty ImagesShould Claudine Gay have resigned as president of Harvard? Are conservatives right that a rabidly pro-Hamas left has captured Harvard? Are liberals correct that the fascistic right has launched an all-out assault on academic freedom, at Harvard? The New York Times has explored these questions (about Harvard) over the course of almost 17,000 articles.These are indeed fascinating topics. However, they ignore a key issue: That for anyone with a progressive perspective, Harvard should not be either reformed (to eliminate its wokeness) or protected (from the forces of reaction). Rather, it should be razed to the ground.Then, after Harvard has been razed, we must salt the earth, Carthage-style, so a new Harvard does not grow in its place. Next we have to destroy the rest of the Ivy League. Finally, anyone with enough energy left over should sail an emissions-free ship t...

In a second Trump or Biden term, who’d be the next defense chief?

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

The presidential election is still 10 months away, but that hasn’t stopped water cooler speculation about who might lead the Pentagon in a potential second term for President Joe Biden or Donald Trump.Biden made history when he announced that he would tap retired Gen. Lloyd Austin as the first Black defense secretary, a pick POLITICO first reported in December 2020. If he wins a second term, Biden may want to break another barrier: putting a woman atop the Pentagon for the first time.While Austin isn’t expected to leave his post early — and a senior administration official told POLITICO there are no conversations underway about replacing him — a number of women’s names are circulating in national security circles.POLITICO took a look at some of the top contenders, which emerged out of conversations with DOD and White House insiders, as well as former officials in Trump’s circle. They all were granted anonymity to speak candidly about decisions still very early in the makin...

Which young arms could Red Sox target in trade?

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

Every time he’s spoken publicly this offseason, Red Sox chief baseball officer Craig Breslow has extolled the importance of bolstering the club’s starting rotation. And not just for this season, but for many years to come.Translation, he’s not looking for a one-year rental, but an up-and-comer who offers multiple years of team control.Trading for that kind of young standout would be the biggest move the franchise could possibly make, but getting a deal done won’t be easy. Acquiring anyone like that would be costly, likely necessitating at least one of Boston’s top young players — Triston Casas, Marcelo Mayer, Roman Anthony, Kyle Teel — plus a lot more on top of that.But if Breslow were to swing a franchise-altering blockbuster, who could he actually get? There aren’t that many young, controllable starting pitchers out there who’d really move the needle, but if the Red Sox were to take the plunge, here are a few arms who might be worth the pr...

A timeline of key moments leading to Japan planes colliding. Human error is seen as a possible cause

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

It only took 18 minutes to evacuate the 379 passengers of Japan Airlines Flight 516 after their plane burst into flames just after touchdown at Tokyo’s Haneda airport Tuesday evening. A smaller coast guard Bombardier Dash-8 aircraft, preparing to take off to deliver urgent aid to quake-hit central Japan, was using the same runway when the two collided. The captain of the coast guard craft escaped with burns but his five crew members died.The Associated Press collected accounts from officials and transcripts of traffic control communication. Here is a look at key moments leading to the collision. TRAFFIC CONTROLSTranscripts of the recorded communication, released by the transport ministry Wednesday, at 5:43 p.m., show airport traffic control and the JAL Airbus A350 establish communications four minutes before landing. Two minutes later, traffic control tells the JAL plane it’s allowed to land on the designated runway, 34R, with the pilot saying “cleared to land.”Just 10 seconds...

Death toll rises to 5 in hospital fire in northern Germany

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

BERLIN (AP) — The death toll in a fire that broke out in a hospital in Germany this week has risen to five, with all of the victims patients, as investigators sought to understand the cause of the blaze.The fire broke out late Thursday at the hospital in Uelzen, southeast of Hamburg. Emergency workers arrived to flames and calls for help. They evacuated several people, and were able to stop the fire from spreading any further, according to the dpa news agency, which cited police.Firefighters and police, some using ladders, rescued several patients from their rooms.The German news agency dpa reported late Friday that a fifth victim succumbed to injuries, raising the earlier death toll of four to five.Six people were seriously injured and 16 others had lesser injuries, dpa reported, citing the hospital. The injured suffered smoke inhalation and burns.The cause of the fire was still unclear on Saturday.The Associated Press

Thousands of mourners in Islamabad attend funeral for Pakistani cleric gunned down in broad daylight

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

ISLAMABAD (AP) — Thousands of mourners attended a funeral Saturday for a Pakistani Sunni Muslim cleric gunned down in broad daylight on the outskirts of the capital, Islamabad, police and and a spokesman for the cleric’s organization said.The funeral of Masoodur Rehman Usmani was held a day after unidentified gunmen shot and killed him and wounded his driver in the neighborhood of Ghauri town, according to a statement issued by the Islamabad police.No one claimed responsibility for the attack, which is a rare occurrence near Islamabad. Police said they were using closed-circuit TV footage to track down the attackers, and vowed that they would be arrested and brought to justice.Authorities in Islamabad have stepped up security by deploying additional police and some embassies were advising their nationals to avoid visiting the area where the funeral for Usmani was to be held.Usmani was a deputy secretary at his Sunni Ulema Council, which emerged after Pakistan outlawed the Sipa...

South Korea says the North has again fired artillery shells near their sea border

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

SEOUL, South Korea (AP) — North Korea conducted a new round of artillery firing drills near the disputed sea boundary with South Korea on Saturday, officials in Seoul said.South Korea’s Joint Chiefs of Staff said the North fired more than 60 rounds near the western sea boundary.A day earlier, North Korea fired about 200 artillery shells near the area, prompting South Korea to conduct its own firing drills in response.The Joint Chiefs of Staff said it strongly urges North Korea to halt acts that heighten tensions.The Associated Press

Pope Francis warns against ideological splits in the Church, says focus on the poor, not ‘theory’

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 07:51:44 GMT

VATICAN CITY (AP) — Amid resistance to some Vatican policy by more conservative factions of the Catholic church, Pope Francis on Saturday cautioned the faithful against fracturing into groups “based on our own ideas.” He issued the call to abandon “ecclesiastical ideologies” in his homily in St. Peter’s Basilica during Epiphany Day Mass, the last major Christmas season holiday.Francis also warned against “basking in some elegant religious theory” instead of finding God in the faces of the poor. Last month, Francis gave permission for priests to bless couples outside of marriage, including same-sex relationships, as long as the blessing was pastoral and not liturgical or part of some religious rite. Some bishops who view Francis as a dangerous progressive immediately rejected such blessings. That prompted the Vatican earlier this week to issue a statement stressing that the blessings don’t constitute heresy and there were no doctrinal grounds to reject the practice....